Pronouns are words that replace nouns in sentences to make communication more fluid and efficient. The third person singular pronouns in English include 'he,' 'him,' and 'his' (traditionally used for male-identifying subjects), and 'she,' 'her,' and 'hers' (traditionally used for female-identifying subjects). While many languages, including standard English, have historically used only gendered options for third person singular pronouns, modern English usage has evolved to include gender-neutral alternatives such as 'they,' 'them,' and 'theirs' for individuals, along with many other types of pronouns.
He/him/his: can indicate that the subject identifies as male.
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Andrew is going to be my roommate. He is bringing the mini-fridge.
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Tyler would like for us to meet him at Odegaard to study for the exam.
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Todd can’t go to the movie tonight because his partner is sick.
She/her/hers: can indicate that the subject identifies as female.
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Monica called me to say that she is applying to be on the ASUW Queer Student Commission.
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Sarah brought her new puppy to campus!
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I think Brittany left her phone on the table. Do you think this is hers?
They/them/theirs: do not indicate the subject’s gender. Functions as both singular and plural pronouns.
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Carl is interested in studying abroad. They want to talk to you about what to expect.
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Kris is going to the Gender Discussion Group meeting with us. We shouldn't leave without them.
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Jo’s fraternity is recruiting new members. Are you interested in checking out their organization?
Additional pronouns: Ze/hir/hirs, Co/co/cos, and Per/per/pers: do not indicate the subject’s gender.
Someone may also want to be referred to only by their name: Sarah went back to Sarah’s house to take care of the puppy. Jo asked if I liked the members of Jo’s fraternity. I told Jo that they seemed like fun people.